Do you ever ask yourself, "Am I dealing with a jealous partner?" Is his (or her) jealousy reasonable? Is it rational or is it irrational? Is he (or she) being so jealous, that it's not right and it's not fair? Let us know why it happens in our life. By Chinmay
Here are 5 signs to watch out for...
1. Is he calling you all the time and checking up on you? Does he always ask who are you talking to and where are you going?
2. Is he making issues about you taking time to spend on your own? Does he/she get upset or angry when you want to go out by yourself or with your friends?
3. Does he/she get upset or complain if you talk to other guys? Does he/she accuse you of being interested in someone other than him/her? Does he/she refuse to see that you are just being social and playful, having a good time with other people and that you just want to share that good time with him/her?
4. Does he/she always want to know what time you're coming home and then get angry if you come home later than you expected? Do you feel like you don't have freedom to be yourself and do the things that are important to you?
5. This one is very important. Is he/she going through your personal things... emails, phone messages, your date book, personal dairy... trying to find out where you're going and who you're with because he/she don't trust you?
6. Does he/she always trying to find out who you're talking by phone while your phone is on wait because he/she wants you always?
If you think your partner is jealous, the first thing to do is to reassure him that he/she has nothing to worry about. Take his/her feelings seriously, but at the same time make sure you preserve to do your own things. Be sure if its not crossed your limit.
